I am now picturing your comment read by Sherlock and it's beautiful.

Also that sadly makes a lot of sense. :( Though is it not possible to go into a debate that's open to white people (as opposed to a situation where people want a safe space to talk amongst themselves) and say "okay, I'm not the authority on this because there's no way I've had the experience of being for instance a black person, so I'm not going to talk as if I know better than everyone else"?